I totally agree - it is so relentless. I am fed up of everything being about him- down to the last detail - it is so BORING not to be considered at all.Home or away, the amount of difficulties is probably the same just a different set.
The stress catches us out, it is subtle too, difficult to explain.
When we put it into words it can seem feeble.
No one understand unless they have actually been in that situation, day after day and year after year.
Knowing the facts is not the same as living these day in and day out.
It's almost as though I am invisible. Like old time servants who the 'master' never saw..... I really sometimes wish he would go back to his family to live - and then other times, I think' poor old soul' it's not his fault...... and he thinks everything is OK - that's soul destroying in itself.....