You are dead right - it is a living hell.I certainly need this attitude now when I feel that this is a living hell. Where has he gone?
I hate my life, there is so little in it. I hate his life for being as it is.
When we were young we never thought about dementia did we? We thought that some old folk were strange, but never for one minute did we think of the anguish that their families endured trying to keep them safe and the emotional trauma involved.
We did not think, because we were young with our whole lives ahead.
Now we are not young any more, and our lives have disintegrated...