My mum been in care home for two months now not settling at all allways packing her things and tells me she is not staying there. Thing is she has escaped once from home police and my husband out driving around looking for her, found mile and half away at the station by Police. Yesterday she got out again apparently pushed her way passed someone else being let out, carers apparently tried to get her back in but she refused to go in and when one told her she could not go she punched them Eventually the manager just followed her and phoned my husband (I was at work) who went there and between them they managed to get her back in The home have now said they may not be able to keep her there but have spoken to Dr who has perscribed medication that will calm her down a little! and will see how se
e how it goes. Not sure I like the sound of that one.
Has anyone else experienced there relatives escaping from the CH? I am not very happy that this has happened twice in as many months also if she is playing up they keep ringing me asking me to try to talk to her and calm her down on 2 occasions they have even asked my 15 year old son to speak to his nan and calm her down surely if they are dementia trained they should be able to talk her around I don't mind talking to her but wonder if I should consider moving her or will the same happen elsewhere.
Any tips or words of wisdom would be much appreciated.
e how it goes. Not sure I like the sound of that one.
Has anyone else experienced there relatives escaping from the CH? I am not very happy that this has happened twice in as many months also if she is playing up they keep ringing me asking me to try to talk to her and calm her down on 2 occasions they have even asked my 15 year old son to speak to his nan and calm her down surely if they are dementia trained they should be able to talk her around I don't mind talking to her but wonder if I should consider moving her or will the same happen elsewhere.
Any tips or words of wisdom would be much appreciated.