Hi Kate
Hang on in there. You are doing a sterling job particularly if you don't feel good.
If your Dad is feeling bad about accepting help maybe don't force the issue for a few days (and give yourself a bit of breathing space to get well). A few days may give him a bit if space to get used to the help on offer idea. (Unless of course that you feel that the situation is critical and he will crack unless it is put in place soon)
Sometimes the cracking part is needed to make our nearest and dearest admit that they need help, support and assessment. It is unfortunate but true that it will not be looked for or wanted until they hit the wall and all we want to do is stop them hitting the wall as they drive towards it at breakneck speed. But take care of yourself too.
((((((((((hugs))))))))))))
Thinking of you
Love
Mameeskye
Hang on in there. You are doing a sterling job particularly if you don't feel good.
If your Dad is feeling bad about accepting help maybe don't force the issue for a few days (and give yourself a bit of breathing space to get well). A few days may give him a bit if space to get used to the help on offer idea. (Unless of course that you feel that the situation is critical and he will crack unless it is put in place soon)
Sometimes the cracking part is needed to make our nearest and dearest admit that they need help, support and assessment. It is unfortunate but true that it will not be looked for or wanted until they hit the wall and all we want to do is stop them hitting the wall as they drive towards it at breakneck speed. But take care of yourself too.
((((((((((hugs))))))))))))
Thinking of you
Love
Mameeskye