I had a lovely two hour lunch with a dear friend of mine today, a straight taking lady who calls a spade a spade. After much banter and interesting conversation the conversation turned to Mary and how she was regressing - I told her that Mary had another arrhythmic episode (her heart stops briefly) on Saturday and we discussed my attitude and how I dealt with the situation. Knowing Mary's condition she said that nobody would blame me if it took some while to find the phone!
This has made me examine thoughts and feelings I would rather not see the light of day. From postings I sense that I may not be alone with these ambivalent thoughts - we don't want them to die but on the other hand we don't want the suffering to continue. How do we cope with these thoughts? Do we ignore them? Do we suppress them? Or what? Has anyone found an answer?
Dick
This has made me examine thoughts and feelings I would rather not see the light of day. From postings I sense that I may not be alone with these ambivalent thoughts - we don't want them to die but on the other hand we don't want the suffering to continue. How do we cope with these thoughts? Do we ignore them? Do we suppress them? Or what? Has anyone found an answer?
Dick