Some years ago my wife and I watched a programme in which talking about his father's role in the Spanish civil war opened up a more emotional, likeable and human side to Michael Portillo. I was keen to watch the first in his new series of train journeys starting in Salamanca, a city where my wife and I had some lovely holidays before dementia. I wasn't disappointed as the programme was both very interesting and personally evocative of those better times. It made me happy and left me with a desire to go that way again someday. But it also made me sad to think that none of it would have meant anything to my wife. The storks on top of the San Esteban basilica, the magnificent Plaza Mayor, the city walls of Avila, all would have gone unnoticed. Her witty comments on Portillo's unusual clothing colour combinations are just a voice from the past. I am happy in my own company and doing well. But not being able to share these things with her matters more than I expected.
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