I've just read the article in the latest copy of 'Living with Dementia' about Alex Burton, about the problems for someone with Alzheimer's who's living on their own. There were all sorts of points in the article that I realise apply to my 90-year-old mother, who lives on her own in her own house, and has always said that's how she wanted to live out her life.
At present my sister and I manage the upkeep and maintenance of her house and large garden, we do all her shopping, etc, we do some sort of daily check on her, but we as we're both ourselves pensioners, we wonder how much longer we can keep this up, and how much of our own remaining years we want to give over to her care needs.
Apart from a 6-monthly check on her medication at the local memory clinic, she has no contact with the health service or social services. There seem to be no systems of any sort for anyone to check on the situation and monitor it. No-one talks seriously with my mother about Alzheimer's symptoms, how her needs will change, and the implications for her current situation. One of us takes her to the hospital clinic appointment every 6 months, but you wonder, if she didn't turn up for one of those, how long would it be before there was any response to that?
At present my sister and I manage the upkeep and maintenance of her house and large garden, we do all her shopping, etc, we do some sort of daily check on her, but we as we're both ourselves pensioners, we wonder how much longer we can keep this up, and how much of our own remaining years we want to give over to her care needs.
Apart from a 6-monthly check on her medication at the local memory clinic, she has no contact with the health service or social services. There seem to be no systems of any sort for anyone to check on the situation and monitor it. No-one talks seriously with my mother about Alzheimer's symptoms, how her needs will change, and the implications for her current situation. One of us takes her to the hospital clinic appointment every 6 months, but you wonder, if she didn't turn up for one of those, how long would it be before there was any response to that?