I have posted lots of things on here and find I'm using it as therapy for my thoughts.
My mil whilst still very healthy she is rapidly 'losing it' mind wise. Her Alzheimer's means her short term memory is shot to pieces but this aside she functions pretty well as long as she stays at home.
The complicating factor is she also has FTDwhich is really starting to come out.
My husband and I have found note pads (about 4 or 5)littered with very sexually explicit comments.
She and her siblings were sexually abused as children (just the girls and the youngest male). We don't know who by as this is a very deep secret that family never ever speak about.
She is starting to upset family members by openly talking about it in public and writing things down that I would expect from a teenage girl. No one knew her brother had been abused now we all know.
We can't stop her doing this but 5 yr old daughter spends a lot of time with her and I'm concerned.
It's good for both of them that they spend time together but my daughter used a word the other day to describe female genitalia which I would never ever use.
I'm worried as some days she's normal and other sis such an odd ball.
My mil whilst still very healthy she is rapidly 'losing it' mind wise. Her Alzheimer's means her short term memory is shot to pieces but this aside she functions pretty well as long as she stays at home.
The complicating factor is she also has FTDwhich is really starting to come out.
My husband and I have found note pads (about 4 or 5)littered with very sexually explicit comments.
She and her siblings were sexually abused as children (just the girls and the youngest male). We don't know who by as this is a very deep secret that family never ever speak about.
She is starting to upset family members by openly talking about it in public and writing things down that I would expect from a teenage girl. No one knew her brother had been abused now we all know.
We can't stop her doing this but 5 yr old daughter spends a lot of time with her and I'm concerned.
It's good for both of them that they spend time together but my daughter used a word the other day to describe female genitalia which I would never ever use.
I'm worried as some days she's normal and other sis such an odd ball.