I was in two minds as what to call this thread... the old lady who cried wolf or the above thread. To cut Aged mother some slack I decided on “the not so magic roundabout...”
Reason being the manipulation has upped in intensity & im not sure how to respond anymore.
I opted out of being the first line of communication for Aged Mother for a while - I need to grieve the loss of Dad & OH is joint & severally LPA so ive passed on his contact details to carers & the cleaners.
Aged Mother is playing the carers up & playing the cleaner off against them; consequently the GP was called out.
It’s a de ja vu issue again I fear, with fluctuating capacity & the stubbornness of an old mule added to the equation.
the confabulations are getting more regular & more elaborate, I really do wonder when will this all end & worry about what will happen to Aged Mother .
One thing is for sure this isn’t going to end well....
Reason being the manipulation has upped in intensity & im not sure how to respond anymore.
I opted out of being the first line of communication for Aged Mother for a while - I need to grieve the loss of Dad & OH is joint & severally LPA so ive passed on his contact details to carers & the cleaners.
Aged Mother is playing the carers up & playing the cleaner off against them; consequently the GP was called out.
It’s a de ja vu issue again I fear, with fluctuating capacity & the stubbornness of an old mule added to the equation.
the confabulations are getting more regular & more elaborate, I really do wonder when will this all end & worry about what will happen to Aged Mother .
One thing is for sure this isn’t going to end well....