My husband is only 68, and has now reached a very difficult stage in his illness. I’ve always thought I could look after him throughout his illness, and have done for years, but now, because of the nature of his illness(possibly FTD) , it has reached a point where it’s unsafe for us both for him to be at home. He has been assessed over the past 2 months in hospital, and I have so wanted medication to be found that would allow him to come home, but sadly, after one trial day and night at home, it was clear that it just wasn’t safe for either of us. He is back in hospital and of course I can’t see him. We are now awaiting news of which home he can go to, and of course, normal procedures don’t apply. My family has been saying for some time this was coming to keep me safe too, but all I can think of late at night is my husband, and this feeling that I have let him down in some way. Has anyone else experienced this? So very hard,