Of course, you are entitled to use the disabled bathroom!!!That is the conclusion I have come to as well, both before and after his check up. I sometimes go with him and get him to sit down to empty his bladder because I don’t think he does. Then he seems to be able to wait longer. I have to do that if we are out because it’s a nightmare because he can’t find the toilet and I find myself trekking backwards and forwards. I started using the disabled toilet so that I could go in with him. He is disabled after all even though it’s hidden in his head.