It's not only that I do not have to visit the NH again, it's more because Rich is NOT there and I am so grateful for that. I would say goodnight to him every night and sometimes I would just shudder and then after he died I changed to goodnight where ever you are and since I brought his cremains home, I just say goodnight and no longer toss and turn, but go blissfully asleep. He is back home where he belongs and I find such peace with that.
Because the chaplain was with him when he died and said prayers, I didn't feel the need for a funeral. I invited family and his five closest friends to the house for a celebration. We gave him quite a send off - lots of laughter and tears. He would have loved it.
Susan
Because the chaplain was with him when he died and said prayers, I didn't feel the need for a funeral. I invited family and his five closest friends to the house for a celebration. We gave him quite a send off - lots of laughter and tears. He would have loved it.
Susan