Many thanks for ALL of your replies
Thank you all for replying to my sad news.
It certainly has been a rocky-road, these last few months.
In particular the last few weeks.
I thought we were at yet another terrible stage and I was going to have to decide on my / our future.
More importantly for MY own safety (aggression).
Yes, I’ve been called courageous and amazing in these last few days, and yet family still have for the best part ignored us.
A couple have apologised at how they wish they had done more (guilt, I call it).
It’s hard for me to hear in-law family say to others at the funeral how much they did for us, and how we have all pulled together to help out.
Their friends said to me ‘how lucky’ I have been to of had their support.
I did not have the * to say how I really felt about them and how they have acted over these last few years.
I admire everyone one of you who continues to love and care for your loved one, whether it be a partner, spouse, or mum dad other relative, or just a friend.
And on the other hand, I wholeheartedly understand those of you who have needed to place family into full time care.
Take Care
DaisyG