I joined this forum some time ago, when my dad was first diagnosed, but have rarely posted before.
My dad has been in residential care home for 3 and a half years and was moved from low dependency to medium dependency unit a year ago.
During the past month he has gradually been losing his appetite and in the last week has been losing the ability to swallow. The GP has been called out to him and has said that nothing can be done. I understand that this is the final stage of Alzheimer's, and that the GP is correct.
This evening my dad has coughed up some blood and so paramedics have been called and he has been taken off to A&E. Apparently the paramedics believe he has some indicators of having sepsis, and they have found fluid on his lungs. So... the hospital are now going to attempt to drain the fluid from his lungs and fill him with antibiotics.
I'm so, so sad. I hate that he's going to be in hospital in unfamiliar surroundings with unfamiliar staff. I am worried they won't meet his needs, such as changing his incontinence pads, etc, and that he'll then get skin breakdown, etc. I just don't want my dad to die in pain and discomfort like that. It seems that every possible way this horrible, horrible disease can punish him, it is doing so.
I'm not even sure I have a question. Just needed to vent to someone who understands. I hope things will end quickly for him now.
Much love and admiration to all of you coping with similar.
Kate.
My dad has been in residential care home for 3 and a half years and was moved from low dependency to medium dependency unit a year ago.
During the past month he has gradually been losing his appetite and in the last week has been losing the ability to swallow. The GP has been called out to him and has said that nothing can be done. I understand that this is the final stage of Alzheimer's, and that the GP is correct.
This evening my dad has coughed up some blood and so paramedics have been called and he has been taken off to A&E. Apparently the paramedics believe he has some indicators of having sepsis, and they have found fluid on his lungs. So... the hospital are now going to attempt to drain the fluid from his lungs and fill him with antibiotics.
I'm so, so sad. I hate that he's going to be in hospital in unfamiliar surroundings with unfamiliar staff. I am worried they won't meet his needs, such as changing his incontinence pads, etc, and that he'll then get skin breakdown, etc. I just don't want my dad to die in pain and discomfort like that. It seems that every possible way this horrible, horrible disease can punish him, it is doing so.
I'm not even sure I have a question. Just needed to vent to someone who understands. I hope things will end quickly for him now.
Much love and admiration to all of you coping with similar.
Kate.