Hi all,
Today is the Day my Mum is leaving hospital and moving to her 'new home'.
I am sitting here completely numb and know I have a hundred things to do, but dont know where to start. I keep going into Mums lounge and bedroom (she lived with us for a short time) to get her things packed to take and just keep crying. Mum has so many wonderful momentos and trinkets, photographs of her family etc I dont know where to begin.
Luckily my hubby and little girl are not here to see me in this state, as they have gone to the airport to collect my sister who is coming up for a few days.
I keep telling myself to be strong, because Mum needs me, but my heart is breaking. Mum doesnt want to go into the home and I still believe she thinks she is coming back here with us.
This is a time where I really need my Mum to cuddle me and tell me it will all work out. I am a mature woman, wife and Mum myself, but I feel like a little girl again and the pain just wont go away.
Please can anyone advise me if there anything practical that I should do regarding Mums move today that I may not have thought about as I am not with it at the moment.
Take care all
Mel
xXx
Today is the Day my Mum is leaving hospital and moving to her 'new home'.
I am sitting here completely numb and know I have a hundred things to do, but dont know where to start. I keep going into Mums lounge and bedroom (she lived with us for a short time) to get her things packed to take and just keep crying. Mum has so many wonderful momentos and trinkets, photographs of her family etc I dont know where to begin.
Luckily my hubby and little girl are not here to see me in this state, as they have gone to the airport to collect my sister who is coming up for a few days.
I keep telling myself to be strong, because Mum needs me, but my heart is breaking. Mum doesnt want to go into the home and I still believe she thinks she is coming back here with us.
This is a time where I really need my Mum to cuddle me and tell me it will all work out. I am a mature woman, wife and Mum myself, but I feel like a little girl again and the pain just wont go away.
Please can anyone advise me if there anything practical that I should do regarding Mums move today that I may not have thought about as I am not with it at the moment.
Take care all
Mel
xXx