1. elaineo2

    elaineo2 Registered User

    Jul 6, 2007
    945
    leigh lancashire
    thankyou all for you support over the last 7 months,my dad was the crux of my postings and god bless he has now gone to the place that only angels deserve to go.nite dad and love from me.if its hell up there then hey ho! deal with it.Its a lesson you taught me so well!Be good and you wll have your rightful place in life.Heavens not missing my angel!love elaine
     
  2. Margarita

    Margarita Registered User

    Feb 17, 2006
    10,824
    london
    If I have read it right . your father pass away ? what a shock for you seem so sudden . So sorry to read that .
     
  3. elaineo2

    elaineo2 Registered User

    Jul 6, 2007
    945
    leigh lancashire
    within the last 3 days dad took a turn for the worst.it was inevitable and because i do what i do for a living i could predict the timing,oh christ am crying now,.i saw him and said that we must be ready that within the hour it would be over,and it wasbless him,so peaceful
     
  4. jenniferpa

    jenniferpa Volunteer Moderator

    Jun 27, 2006
    39,439
    Dear Elaine

    I am so sorry to hear your news.

    Take care of yourself.
     
  5. Tender Face

    Tender Face Account Closed

    Mar 14, 2006
    5,379
    NW England
    Dear Elaine

    I am gutted by this news ...... your dad was clearly a warm-hearted, down-to-earth and very caring and good-humoured individual - evident he has left his legacy ........

    Perhaps he knew it was time before you - let alone he - suffered anymore?

    I am so, so sorry,

    With love, Karen, x
     
  6. Westie

    Westie Registered User

    Dear Elaine, I am so sorry to hear about your Dad. What a shock for you all. I'm glad his end was peaceful.

    Take care.
    Love Mary-Ann
     
  7. Grannie G

    Grannie G Volunteer Moderator

    Apr 3, 2006
    69,584
    Kent
    Oh Dear Elaine, you hardly had time to get used to the diagnosis. That was so quick, I`m so sorry for you and your family. Please take care of each other and yourselves.
    Love xx
     
  8. BeckyJan

    BeckyJan Registered User

    Nov 28, 2005
    18,972
    Derbyshire
    Just to add my sympathy to the others, Elaine. It is sad news but I am glad his passing was peaceful.
    Take care of yourself now. Jan
     
  9. germain

    germain Registered User

    Jul 7, 2007
    342
    Please stay with us

    Elaine,

    So sorry and sad to read your news this morning.

    Can I just say that your posts, written from a professional carer's point of view, have been really helpful to us all over the last few months. Please stay around if you can.

    With love and virtual support


    Germain
     
  10. Skye

    Skye Registered User

    Aug 29, 2006
    17,000
    SW Scotland
    Dear Elaine, I'm so sorry. Such a shock, to have happened so quickly.

    Take care of yourself, and post again whenever you're ready.

    Love,
     
  11. nickyd

    nickyd Registered User

    Oct 20, 2007
    146
    warwickshire
    Dear Elaine,
    So very sorry to hear of the passing of your Dad,
    Sending you my deepest sympathy,
    Take Care,
    Love,
     
  12. Taffy

    Taffy Registered User

    Apr 15, 2007
    1,314
    Dear Elaine,

    May memories comfort you in the loss of your dad

    sincere condolences to you and your mum.

    Love Taffy.
     
  13. christine_batch

    christine_batch Registered User

    Jul 31, 2007
    3,388
    Buckinghamshire
    Dear Elaine,
    I sent sincere condolences to you on the loss of your Father.
    My thoughts are with you, your children and your Mum.
    Although it was sudden, he is no longer suffering.
    Thank you for all your support to me over the months and I am here still for you.
    Love from
    Christine
     
  14. sue38

    sue38 Registered User

    Mar 6, 2007
    10,856
    Wigan, Lancs
    Dear Elaine,

    I'm so very sorry to hear about your Dad, please accept my condolences.

    I am sure he has gone to a better place and is no longer suffering.

    Love
     
  15. angela.robinson

    angela.robinson Registered User

    Dec 27, 2004
    520
    so sorry to hear of your dads sudden passing ,please take some comfort that his ending was peaceful. and he will not suffer the ravages of the later stages , you will be left with all the good memories of him.
    take care,be strong.
    love Angela.xx
     
  16. Canadian Joanne

    Canadian Joanne Volunteer Moderator

    Apr 8, 2005
    16,110
    Toronto, Canada
    Dear Elaine,
    My sympathies on the death of your father. I hope you will continue to have the peace of mind you have now.
    Take care.
     
  17. SusanB

    SusanB Registered User

    Jan 15, 2008
    155
    Hove
    Elaine,

    I'd like to add my condolences, too. Obviously, I don't know you but your love and care for your dear old Dad has really shone through in your post about his passing away. I hope that you are taking good care of yourself and that you will cherish some great memories of him.
     
  18. elaineo2

    elaineo2 Registered User

    Jul 6, 2007
    945
    leigh lancashire
    Thankyou all for your support and condolences,i take strength from the fact that i am priviliged to have such good friends on TP and will relay your posts to mum tomorrow(she's sleeping now).Thanks again,my heart was so heavy and you all lifted it up tonight.love and the best to you all.love elaine
     
  19. rhallacroz

    rhallacroz Registered User

    Sep 24, 2007
    106
    merseyside
    My Sympathy

    Dear Elaine
    I too am so sorry for you all my sincere sympathy to you. It was quick I know. But like others on this site I am so glad he didn;t suffer the terrible course that this disease usually takes.
    Take care
    Angela x Keep posting when you feel better will be thinking about you in the next few weeks.
     
  20. Doreen99

    Doreen99 Registered User

    Jan 12, 2008
    66
    Sheffield
    Elaine

    I'm so sorry to hear about your dad, but pleased that it was peaceful for you both.

    It's hard to cope with the death of a parent, even when you expect it, it still comes as shock. You're going to be going through a difficult time, I'm sure you'll get the support you need from TP. I'm certainly here if you need to talk.
     

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