I can't remember where I was up to in the story of my Mum (which I posted under All at Sea), but now her story is over. After a sharp decline in the middle of January, Mum (living with us, aged 92 with AD) wouldn't get up, refused to eat or drink apart from tiny amounts and eventually had 2 falls in one night and got taken to A&E. From there on to a demetia/stroke ward (where the staff all had the patience of saints), she rallied slightly and we were thinking along the lines of residential care when she contracted a chest infection. They initially began treating her, but I knew that wasn't what she had wanted (and had spoken only the day before to a consultant about it) and so they agreed to stop the antibiotics. OH & I stayed with her for 4 days & nights (with short breaks when other family members took over). By Tuesday evening she was more or less unconscious so we came home for some sleep. Got the phone call at 2.15 am, rushed back in time to be with her at the end.
It's only now she's gone and I'm arranging her funeral that my good memories of pre-dementia Mum are starting to come back. It's going to take some time to adjust to life without her to care for.
So I'm leaving TP. I haven't posted much but I've read a lot and it's been a lifeline. Although every journey with dementia is different, there are many points of similarity and whenever something changed with Mum there was usually someone on here who had had a similar experience or could offer advice. Thank you all so much, I wish all you strength in your continuing journeys, but I sincerely hope that I don't have cause to return here in the future either for another relative or for myself.
Love
Wildlife
xxxxxx
It's only now she's gone and I'm arranging her funeral that my good memories of pre-dementia Mum are starting to come back. It's going to take some time to adjust to life without her to care for.
So I'm leaving TP. I haven't posted much but I've read a lot and it's been a lifeline. Although every journey with dementia is different, there are many points of similarity and whenever something changed with Mum there was usually someone on here who had had a similar experience or could offer advice. Thank you all so much, I wish all you strength in your continuing journeys, but I sincerely hope that I don't have cause to return here in the future either for another relative or for myself.
Love
Wildlife
xxxxxx