My husband is going into care on Monday and the staff insist we all tell him the truth. I am horrified. Why give him upsetting news every time he asks what he's doing there (which could be every five minutes). Much better surely to reassure him every five minutes by saying that he'll be there a day or so for tests or while I go away on a business trip for a couple of days. They don't believe in lying to the patients. But he'll be devastated. I've read a lot about this and want to show them studies and opinion, but I can't find anything now that I need it. Any thoughts?