I find this really difficult and use to not get my points across. Mum gives me daggers, fortunately whoever we are seeing notices this and realises that it's awkward for me. I just have to do my best and often I get to speak to the person on the phone a day or so later. I always ask if they have a contact number 'incase I need to speak to them about anything'. They usually understand what I mean.
I also find that as difficult as it is, I need to tell them as much as I can. Afterwards on the way home, I try to talk about something to take mum's mind off the appointment. Sadly the chances are she will have forgotten about what was discussed anyway!
I also find that as difficult as it is, I need to tell them as much as I can. Afterwards on the way home, I try to talk about something to take mum's mind off the appointment. Sadly the chances are she will have forgotten about what was discussed anyway!