Mums been in the care home for 7 weeks now and is settled. She doesn’t ask me to take her home now. Her conversations are very muddled and I don’t really know what she’s on about a lot of the time but I let her happily jabber on. Every time I go she has clothes on that are covered in stains or dry food. Her nails are always filthy too. I take her out when I go but, she looks a mess. Today she said that she felt sore underneath so when I took her back I asked to speak to the manager but she was on meds round so she rang me when I got home. She’s asked was it ok to check her and she did and rang me back. Mum had a heat rash between her legs so she washed her and put a barrier cream on much to mums relief apparently! She has winter clothes on every time me or my aunties go so I said please stop putting thick clothes on her it’s very hot at the
Moment and she has loads of lovely thinner, summer tops and loose linen trousers. I took her to get her hair cut and I cut her nails really short. Am I being too fussy in wanting her to look nice when I take her out? It’s horrible that I can’t get in to see her room because then I’d know if all her stuffs been unpacked. She must have been boiling today as she had a jacket on, a long sleeved top, thick jeans and a pair of black socks and trainers on. My auntie has said she’s going to ring ahead on her next visit to ask that she has clean clothes on. I appreciate they are very busy but when I asked about the stains today the manager said oh it’ll be from her dinner. Sorry if I’m jabbering on but I hate seeing her unkempt she was always so well turned out. I’m not asking them to make her look like she’s going to a wedding just to look clean and tidy.
Moment and she has loads of lovely thinner, summer tops and loose linen trousers. I took her to get her hair cut and I cut her nails really short. Am I being too fussy in wanting her to look nice when I take her out? It’s horrible that I can’t get in to see her room because then I’d know if all her stuffs been unpacked. She must have been boiling today as she had a jacket on, a long sleeved top, thick jeans and a pair of black socks and trainers on. My auntie has said she’s going to ring ahead on her next visit to ask that she has clean clothes on. I appreciate they are very busy but when I asked about the stains today the manager said oh it’ll be from her dinner. Sorry if I’m jabbering on but I hate seeing her unkempt she was always so well turned out. I’m not asking them to make her look like she’s going to a wedding just to look clean and tidy.