Hello all,
I haven't posted here in quite a while - since i first had my father assessed. A Lot has happened in that time.
I lost my job. A few times. I moved dad into sheltered accommodation. I got engaged. I got disengaged. I lost my job again. And now my mother has died (if anyone has a four leaf clover they'd like to post me i'd be much obliged).
My main concern now is that Dad has said he would like to go to the funeral. Now i don't come from the Waltons and the funeral is going to be full of people whom i happen to be related to that never liked nor approved of my mother and father's relationship and that neither i nor my father have anything to do with. My mother and father split acrimoniously 21 years ago.
These people have no idea about Dad's condition and i'm trying to find the best way to deal with the funeral. I'm currently erring on the side of hiring a taxi on standby, arriving at the last possible moment and leaving at the first possible moment with a hearty snarl in the direction of anyone who so much as dares approaches me and Dad. And i'll find the money for all of this from the magic money tree at the bottom of my non existent garden. Personally, i'd rather not go but as dad has said we should then that is what i will try to make happen as painlessly as possible.
Any suggestions gratefully received.
I haven't posted here in quite a while - since i first had my father assessed. A Lot has happened in that time.
I lost my job. A few times. I moved dad into sheltered accommodation. I got engaged. I got disengaged. I lost my job again. And now my mother has died (if anyone has a four leaf clover they'd like to post me i'd be much obliged).
My main concern now is that Dad has said he would like to go to the funeral. Now i don't come from the Waltons and the funeral is going to be full of people whom i happen to be related to that never liked nor approved of my mother and father's relationship and that neither i nor my father have anything to do with. My mother and father split acrimoniously 21 years ago.
These people have no idea about Dad's condition and i'm trying to find the best way to deal with the funeral. I'm currently erring on the side of hiring a taxi on standby, arriving at the last possible moment and leaving at the first possible moment with a hearty snarl in the direction of anyone who so much as dares approaches me and Dad. And i'll find the money for all of this from the magic money tree at the bottom of my non existent garden. Personally, i'd rather not go but as dad has said we should then that is what i will try to make happen as painlessly as possible.
Any suggestions gratefully received.