My dad's very unhappy in care so my DH & me have offered to have him live with us as it's not possible for him to live with my mum.
We're waiting for him to be assessed to see if he is "suitable" to live with us, if he is, our home will then be assessed to see if it's suitable to house him.
Meanwhile, my brother who is managing my parent's finances has asked me to give a breakbown of weekly costs of: feeding, clothing, washing, heating, petrol, loss of earnings to pay my self-employed husband who will be helping me, and any capital payments such as new bedding, mattress etc., as the case might be.
He's told me I cannot have dad's debit card to just take care of him as it's illegal without Power of Attorney. He wants mum to send us weekly payments by bank payment.
Until I know what allowances / benefits we'll be granted, I cannot see how I can do this. Can anyone advise me please?
Thanks, Pud x
We're waiting for him to be assessed to see if he is "suitable" to live with us, if he is, our home will then be assessed to see if it's suitable to house him.
Meanwhile, my brother who is managing my parent's finances has asked me to give a breakbown of weekly costs of: feeding, clothing, washing, heating, petrol, loss of earnings to pay my self-employed husband who will be helping me, and any capital payments such as new bedding, mattress etc., as the case might be.
He's told me I cannot have dad's debit card to just take care of him as it's illegal without Power of Attorney. He wants mum to send us weekly payments by bank payment.
Until I know what allowances / benefits we'll be granted, I cannot see how I can do this. Can anyone advise me please?
Thanks, Pud x