I'd be lost without you wouldn't I
I feel for you as maybe my husband was similar - not home much and now I can hardly move without him wondering where and what I am doing. However we are older and for that in a way we have to be thankful. For consolation a friend said there is life after Alzheimers - maybe different, but there is.
My husband said after a difficult morning (especially with mobility problems as well) - what do people do if they haven't got a Jan? - I think that was a compliment. Keep your chin up - we are in a very large group of similar sufferers and not as isolated as you might think. BeckyJan
twink said:Hi Rosalind,
I could have written that myself! I snapped and swore at my husband last night because he wound me up and he had fiddled around with my computer - my lifeline - and something had gone wrong but somehow I've fixed it. No idea how! He and I haven't had the most wonderful marriage in the world, far from it, he was very active, hobbies and work, ALL the time, hardly anytime at home and now he is here ALL the time and relies on me and although I hate to say it, I get angry about it. He's had his life and I've sat at home for all those years waiting for him and now he has this awful AD and I think, I'm 53, what about me now but, you can't think like that, you have to get on with it don't you and take what life throws at you. He is very happy and very forgetful and can't do the most simple things - sometimes - and this morning told me "I'd be lost without you wouldn't I".
What can you do or say, just have to get on with it. He's not bad at all at the moment compared to some people I've read about on TP so, we are quite lucky really for now.
Love Twink/Sue
I feel for you as maybe my husband was similar - not home much and now I can hardly move without him wondering where and what I am doing. However we are older and for that in a way we have to be thankful. For consolation a friend said there is life after Alzheimers - maybe different, but there is.
My husband said after a difficult morning (especially with mobility problems as well) - what do people do if they haven't got a Jan? - I think that was a compliment. Keep your chin up - we are in a very large group of similar sufferers and not as isolated as you might think. BeckyJan