My husband has had to go into carehome as I am too tired to carry on 24/7 care and he is not settled and I am distraught. Been advised that it would not be advisable to bring him home as he is wandering. That sundowning would continue and also the incontinence. His daughter who lives 5 miles away has not enquired how he is or I am coping in 13 months so no help there. I was caring on my own apart from 50 mins Monday to Friday from carers. Do not know how to handle this. Keep breaking down and feel like going for him. I know I am exhausted but it's no easier having him care.