Hi
@Nandi ,
my husband is still independent, can dress, wash, drive locally..
But his memory is poor, his reasoning even poorer.
He relies on me for anything. I spend most of my day looking for things he can't find , answering the same questions , trying to explain to him what he will never understand ( my fault, I know I should give up).
He is also clingy..nearly impossible to go to the supermarket on my own.
We have been living in the country since he retired. Not a soul to have a chat with.
Despite him being still quite independent I have become a full time carer.
We sleep in separate rooms (mine is downstairs, his is upstairs), so I am not on duty at night.
Everyone seems to be looking forward to longer spring and summer days. I dread to think of those nights coming so late to set me free.
What do you do ? You ask.
Nothing at the moment. I'm waiting for the moment when his dementia is more advanced and I can make decisions to safeguard both of us