Mum will get her 2nd jab by mid April
@Sarasa .
I did mention having a relatives what’s app group pre lock down to some other relatives and I have linked up with one relative who was the only other frequent visitor to the Home. Even the Manager was ‘surprised’ at the last relatives meeting as to how happy all the relatives were. I was the only one that challenged him about the visiting policy. I felt like I was the unreasonable one as everyone else was happy/grateful with a 30 min internal visit.
It is frustrating
@anxious annie as
@Sarasa says maybe there might be a little relaxation in a month or so.
I have written again today complaint that the promised phone calls are still not happening.
Tuesday visit was not good. We were back behind the screen. I had been warned that Mum was not in a good mood. I heard her arguing with the Carer as she came down to the visitors room. Carer had tried to get her to put a cardi over her t shirt as it can be a little cold. Door open with me sitting outside and then the screen which has a gap at the bottom and Mum sitting the other side. Fortunately Carer left cardi because within a few minutes Mum was cold and she then agreed to put it on. I had given the receptionist some photos in a clear plastic file of my Mum’s best friend and then one of Mum and best friend’s daughter who Mum was also close to. She had recognised them on my phone in the hospital so I had printed copies as I thought she might like them. Yet they got pushed back under the screen with the words ‘I have seen there so why do I want to see them again’ I said ‘ I thought you might like the,’ to which she just said ‘I already have too much rubbish’ so I let it be.
I tried making conversation with little success. She mainly just sat there with her arms folded and a scowl on her face. I tried to find out what was wrong with even less success. After quite a bit of yawning she announced she was going and off she headed out of the room. Not a successful visit but there was little I could do about it.
I also found out that after the hospital visit that another male resident (non dementia) went into the quarantine wing on Sunday. Mum however has taken a ‘shine’ to him and followed the chap to his room. When the activities coordinator suggested to Mum that she should give the gentleman some privacy Mum went to hit her with the plaster cast arm. Fortunately the activities coordinator moved quickly so she was not hurt but was expecting a bruise.