Oh snap my mum too and she is really quite large herself , luckily she only really says it about people on tv . Maybe as they have all been super busy last few months and just wanted an easier lunchtime (not right but a little understandable ) I’m sure it’s not a habit it they would want to encourage . Glad though that the second call was much better , hope the zoom call was good . How is oh doing now ? Hope his tummy is better I was keeping a diary re mum and moods so it’s a good reminder thanks I will jot it down on calendar .