My Nanna has now been atleast 5 days without food or drink and is still hanging in there. It is surprising how stong the body and mind of a person is.
She rarely wakes now and seems to be in no pain now as they are not giving her as much morphine now. She looks so comfy snuggles up in bed. The hopsital have been great and are taking real good care of her, which is nice as you hear stories.
One of my friends has her heart in the right place but is doing my head in. She is an alchoholic and phoned up last night asking to come round. I thought I'd put her off but no she turned up at my door drunk and saying she will be back tonight to check on me. I really don't need this at the moment, has anyone any suggestions on how to get rid of her (just while I go through this difficult time in my life) as the last thing I need is a drunk in the house while I wait for the dreaded call. I'v told her I might be out tonight trick a treating with my son, but I don't see why I should have to go out or hide in the house from her.
Also at the moment I don't know who to feel with regards to my mum and my uncles and aunty. My mum is due to go on holiday for a week on Tuesday and has said she will be going no matter what. As my mum gets back my Uncle and Aunty are going away. I know they have their lives to live but I just feel it a bit strange that their mother is on her death bed and they keep going on about holidays, and how they will be going no matter what.
Sorry for off loading a bit towards the end of this post but I feel TP is the only place I can talk openly at the moment. My head is just spinning at high speed at the moment and even when I try and get some sleep my head still spins.
Thank you for listening.
Take Care
Clare
She rarely wakes now and seems to be in no pain now as they are not giving her as much morphine now. She looks so comfy snuggles up in bed. The hopsital have been great and are taking real good care of her, which is nice as you hear stories.
One of my friends has her heart in the right place but is doing my head in. She is an alchoholic and phoned up last night asking to come round. I thought I'd put her off but no she turned up at my door drunk and saying she will be back tonight to check on me. I really don't need this at the moment, has anyone any suggestions on how to get rid of her (just while I go through this difficult time in my life) as the last thing I need is a drunk in the house while I wait for the dreaded call. I'v told her I might be out tonight trick a treating with my son, but I don't see why I should have to go out or hide in the house from her.
Also at the moment I don't know who to feel with regards to my mum and my uncles and aunty. My mum is due to go on holiday for a week on Tuesday and has said she will be going no matter what. As my mum gets back my Uncle and Aunty are going away. I know they have their lives to live but I just feel it a bit strange that their mother is on her death bed and they keep going on about holidays, and how they will be going no matter what.
Sorry for off loading a bit towards the end of this post but I feel TP is the only place I can talk openly at the moment. My head is just spinning at high speed at the moment and even when I try and get some sleep my head still spins.
Thank you for listening.
Take Care
Clare