My hubby has been in hospital for just over a week now. Since February(no maybe christmas but nobody would listen) he has been declining and eventually was diagnosed with a UTI after 2 weeks at home with next to useless help from doctors I found him collapsed again, called paras again who came to help and then he started vomiting old blood so was admitted, since then CT shows no vascular decline so this decline must be the Alzhiemers but how in a matter of weeks can I be left with a doubley incontinent, rambling man who barely recognises me except that I might take him home. How do I cope if he comes homes, I am in despair of the hospital, doctors and in despair of myself that I cant help my husband. Please how has this come on so fast with no answers from the doctors, can any of you help? They are looking to discharge him with a short term care package but the man they are sending home is not the man I had before this illness. I visited today and left after 20 mins crying I couldn't deal with him. What can I do?