This is my first post and I feel that everyone else seems so well informed. my mum has ad, quite well advanced but she is still at home with my 82 yr old dad as carer. She goes to respite care for a fortnight every six weeks which is ok but we know it is a situation that not go on for very much longer as my father is very tired. we just don't know the next step....do we need to get her on a waiting list for somewhere, also dad doesn't agree with him having to fully fund etc etc so he is stubbornly doing it all himself. sorry if all thisdoesnt make much sense, but would like advice on what the next steps might be