I am really struggling with Mum at the moment following her dementia diagnosis 2 years ago. Her mobility is really restricted but she does also have severe arthiritis, so is this the dementia or arthiritis causing this? I tried to get a Doctor to home visit on Monday but he only telephoned and prescribed anti inflammatorys. For this past 3 nights she has been agitated and sick throughout the night. I am not her main carer but have just spoken to her on the telephone and her voice seems slurred. I feel as though we have been so badly treated with this dementia diagnosis, I have done an online course to find out as much as I can, but there is no-one to call with your concerns and worries. All I want to know is wat stage are we at. She is incontinent and has now taken to catching her poo with her hands to avoid messing the pad up, trying to eat the tv remote control and all types of peculiar behaviour. I am going to insist on a Doctors visit tomorrow as I really feel she seems to be seen.