Hi all
Mum is now in late stage dementia, every time she takes a dip, I feel like I grieve for her, then it starts again when she takes another dip down. She can no longer walk, eats very little, and has no use of arms, or anything, I think she has had enough and lost the will to live...she lives in a care, been there for 2 years, and I try and deal with the guilt, but I can't get past this, my whole mind is consumed with her suffering and I can't help her...I feel guilty having a life, when hers is so vile, and she suffering...don't know what answers or advise can help me, as reading so much on here, I'm not the only one
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Mum is now in late stage dementia, every time she takes a dip, I feel like I grieve for her, then it starts again when she takes another dip down. She can no longer walk, eats very little, and has no use of arms, or anything, I think she has had enough and lost the will to live...she lives in a care, been there for 2 years, and I try and deal with the guilt, but I can't get past this, my whole mind is consumed with her suffering and I can't help her...I feel guilty having a life, when hers is so vile, and she suffering...don't know what answers or advise can help me, as reading so much on here, I'm not the only one
SS