Oh Red, so sorry things are so hard for you atm, I haven't been in the site for a few days and have missed all of this. Sending virtual hugs and a hand on your shoulder for supportUpdate, 7th day no food but still taking spoons of fluid . He is completely locked in his world of staring and we cannot enter it. I just hope it's a peaceful world! He appears to be settled, although he felt extremely cold, just putting that down to no cover being on him, his forehead was lukewarm. I don't think it was a sign as his breathing was regular, but then who knows. Anxiety is a permanent state at the moment and the tension in my head is unreal. I have begun to realise I am a moaner!!!!!
Hi LadyA, I haven't. He looks scared, and although hearing is the last sense to go, I could say his name over and over and he doesn't respond. I don't want to upset hin either, but I do know what you mean. I just wonder does he realise he is dying? It's mum and dads 50th anniversary on the 20/8 I also wonder is he hanging on for that..guess I'll never know. I will reassure him tomorrow somehow, if I get that chance. XOh Red. Such a hard time for you. Have you reassured your dad that everything has been taken care of, that everybody will be ok, and that as you know how very tired he is now, that it's ok for him to go whenever he's ready? Because sometimes it's as if the person can't seem to let go, until they know those left behind are ok with it. xx