@MaNaAk When mum died 2011 I went straight into looking after dad, not full time but lunch three times a week and staying over once or twice a week, just giving him my time I suppose.. I never had time to grieve for mum because I was looking after dad. I talk to mum a lot now, dad to but mostly mum. I like to think they are together and happy.Dear Charles,
Today is mum's twelfth anniversary and it is just over a year since dad and I still shed tears when I hear some music. I have found that since losing dad not only am I grieving for him but also my dear mum. The two of them were inseparable and as carers we have extra special memories so please keep sharing them on here.