My mother seem to be going from strength to strength . I told my mother last night that she going to day-center tomorrow so she have to have a nice bath , wash her hair look all nice . My mother does not like having a bath because she has to go upstairs where the bath room is , she getting to frail and is scared This morning my mother call me like usually from downstairs , next thing i know i can hear foot step walking upstairs or downstairs , it must be my daughter going downstairs , I 'm half asleep anyway from waking up , next min mum at my bedroom door asking me what time is it , I say they is no time your know the time when the carer arrives to help me wash you (or bath you ) where did my mother find this determination and inner strength to clime those stirs is all I can think about , as I tell her to sit in my bed while I go downstairs , to make myself a coffee to wake up , while the next moment she walking back down those stirs , then back up angina when carer arrives . after bath she go into my bedroom with carer misses my bed and falls on the floor , because dog on my bed & she was telling dog to get of my bed , she trying so hard to till the things she use to , carer tell me I told my mother that she drain the living day lights out of me , while she go from strength to strength. she like those story you read about , when the man or woman see they child under a car & some how fines the inner strength to life that car up , my mother must of mantra on what I said last night about ( looking nice for day-center ) the thought gave her the energy , courage and straight to claim those stirs . Just amazing what my mother can do even thought she AZ , when she puts her mind to it. but still I really have to be careful in what I say to my mother as one day she may fall down those stirs , thinking she can still do them I am so looking forward to my respite on the 29th, .