My mum, 90,AD, lives alone 45 mins drive away from me, rang me a couple of days ago to tell me that the builders working behind her house had reversed into her back wall , the gate was badly damaged and was hanging of its hinges.
They had then driven off without speaking to her and she was very upset and anxious I do something about it immediately.
It all seemed very plausible, so I emailed the company where the work was being done and asked them what they were going to do about it, They replied very quickly to say they had inspected. the gate and could see no damage.
I called mum back who was a little hesitant this time but was still certain it had happened.
The next day I went through and there was indeed no sign of any damage at all.
Mum was upset that she had "got it wrong" and I managed to reassure her that there was no harm done.
My problem is that although we have had occasional odd stories of people coming in and stealing a pair of gloves or a milk jug I have always up till now been able to work out what was real or not.
Normally my brother lives a few miles from her, but he is away for 5 weeks, there is nobody else close I can call on to go round.
She has a home help once a week but is still very resistant to carers.
I am happy to go as often as necessary and may have to go and stay there full time till my brother comes back, but I do have my own family (though adults) as well.
I am wondering if the anxiety of my brother going away has caused this problem?
Does anyone know if care agencies will provide someone to go round for reassurance on an ad hoc basis?
brambles
They had then driven off without speaking to her and she was very upset and anxious I do something about it immediately.
It all seemed very plausible, so I emailed the company where the work was being done and asked them what they were going to do about it, They replied very quickly to say they had inspected. the gate and could see no damage.
I called mum back who was a little hesitant this time but was still certain it had happened.
The next day I went through and there was indeed no sign of any damage at all.
Mum was upset that she had "got it wrong" and I managed to reassure her that there was no harm done.
My problem is that although we have had occasional odd stories of people coming in and stealing a pair of gloves or a milk jug I have always up till now been able to work out what was real or not.
Normally my brother lives a few miles from her, but he is away for 5 weeks, there is nobody else close I can call on to go round.
She has a home help once a week but is still very resistant to carers.
I am happy to go as often as necessary and may have to go and stay there full time till my brother comes back, but I do have my own family (though adults) as well.
I am wondering if the anxiety of my brother going away has caused this problem?
Does anyone know if care agencies will provide someone to go round for reassurance on an ad hoc basis?
brambles