My mum has early stage dementia and Alzheimer’s. She is a widow, lives abound a mile from me & hubby, and generally manages well at home, but is starting to forget medication, eating meals and often falls asleep in front of the tv. I am disabled and don’t drive, but hubby is great, often cooks extra portions so she can have a homemade dinner, and we go round fairly often. We also have an iPad set up facing her in the lounge, it automatically answers so that we can FaceTime her anytime. Recently I have had to ring/FaceTime her morning and evening to make sure that she takes her tablets. I often get “I was just about to take them!” I feel incredibly guilty if I haven’t rung, but I, and my 3 brothers think it would be safer for her if we arranged for a career to visit 2x a day, just to ensure she has breakfast, tablets, and take a meal out of the freezer. She doesn’t really want it, but accepts that she forgets and falls asleep. She will need to pay privately, as she has savings above the upper limit.
Should we now instigate a care needs assessment? Does it sound reasonable to start bringing carers in, as she will undoubtedly get worse? Please can anyone advise? I would be grateful ?
Should we now instigate a care needs assessment? Does it sound reasonable to start bringing carers in, as she will undoubtedly get worse? Please can anyone advise? I would be grateful ?