Help! Mil has told me this morning that she thinks incontinence has started. She admitted that she wet herself when she got out of bed yesterday. I was beginning to suspect this anyway, as there have been a few other incidents, but I wasnt 100% sure. She is quite lucid this morning, so is aware it's happening and is quite embarrassed, but I have found evidence of it happening before - damp nighty down the side of a chest of drawers, a damp slipper in a cupboard! So what do I do now? I know nothing about incontinence and don't know what to buy, what's the best etc!! Is there any medication that can help? Any advice gratefully received.