Hi there ,
Where to start? My mother, 88 with vascular dementia lives with me and my husband for the last 18 years and I am starting to feel it. I am now her full time carer having to give up work as a teacher. My sister lives 300 miles away and only sees our mother for 2 weeks a year. I assume this is when all the paperwork was done.
I recently discovered that theres an LPA registered for finances and a one for health. My sister is the only attorney on the LPA's and now has acces to a joint account I have with my mother. This news has led to a lot of friction bettween us and she has reported me to Social Services for not caring for mother properly. She hasn't been to see her mother either, not that concerned then?
I am really hurt that she has done thi and our relationship is strained but I will have to keep in contact for my mother's health and wellbeing.
Any words of wisdom for me please?
Much appreciated
Where to start? My mother, 88 with vascular dementia lives with me and my husband for the last 18 years and I am starting to feel it. I am now her full time carer having to give up work as a teacher. My sister lives 300 miles away and only sees our mother for 2 weeks a year. I assume this is when all the paperwork was done.
I recently discovered that theres an LPA registered for finances and a one for health. My sister is the only attorney on the LPA's and now has acces to a joint account I have with my mother. This news has led to a lot of friction bettween us and she has reported me to Social Services for not caring for mother properly. She hasn't been to see her mother either, not that concerned then?
I am really hurt that she has done thi and our relationship is strained but I will have to keep in contact for my mother's health and wellbeing.
Any words of wisdom for me please?
Much appreciated