Hi everyone Sorry to be such a pain but I have another question. As I've explained my mum went into care last Tuesday . I've been to see her twice and both visits were disastrous. My ds and dh went on Friday, I went Saturday and my uncle and cousin went yesterday. Aunt going tomorrow night but I can't face it today. Its doing neither of us any good. Is it really awful that she won't have any visitors today? Bearing in mind I used to see her everyday at home and twice most days when she was in hospital. I have visions of her sitting weeping because I'm not there .