My husband has FTD, diagnosed October last year. Today we were driving home and he suddenly said 'I wonder how my mum is?' I thought I'd heard wrong but when I asked what he's said he replied 'I wonder how my mums doing these days'. I didn't reply immediately but I just said your mum isn't alive any more. At this point he clearly had some realisation of what he'd said and started to cover up with yes she died a long time ago now. This has never happened before, nothing remotely like it. Yes he's been forgetful and repeats things and asks same questions but not this. I've been trying to think why. He has been and still is in a lot of pain with a possible trapped nerve in his shoulder, had a good massage this morning. He's also been taking quite strong painkillers which don't usually affect him.badly in any way. I guess either of these could be contributory factors, or I could be looking to justify in another way what is just the progression of the dementia. It was very unsettling especially as I'm due to go away for a few days on Thursday.