Hello friends...sorry to say Trevor back in hospital again, having had a very bad weekend of climbing into wardrobes, paddling in the toilet etc etc. think it may have been constipation again (despite all the prevention medicine) and to top it all I have injured my back trying to prevent him falling and so had ambulance and dr out to me last Thursday!! doesn't rain but it pours!
The hospital won't discharge Trevor until I am fit and they happy with him, so don't know where all this is going to end.
Not getting much help from SW so have decided to go private and pay for help..still cheaper than going into care. I met the lady who will be our main carer and she is lovely so am trying to arange this before he comes out, or he will go into respite for a week to give me some breathing space.
I am being granted 10 hours direct payment, but that has taken 4 weeks so far to be put in place and apparently I can only use those hours as a sitting service, not help with showering etc.
I am constantly being told I should now consider permanent care for Trevor, but having had a few really good days with him last week, I don't feel I can give up on him yet but I have to admit I am getting so weary with all the paperwork, telephone calls, visits etc.
I think our motto ought to be "onward and upward"
On reading your posts, I know you understand how I feel,and that helps tremendously. thank you
love
Bronwen x
The hospital won't discharge Trevor until I am fit and they happy with him, so don't know where all this is going to end.
Not getting much help from SW so have decided to go private and pay for help..still cheaper than going into care. I met the lady who will be our main carer and she is lovely so am trying to arange this before he comes out, or he will go into respite for a week to give me some breathing space.
I am being granted 10 hours direct payment, but that has taken 4 weeks so far to be put in place and apparently I can only use those hours as a sitting service, not help with showering etc.
I am constantly being told I should now consider permanent care for Trevor, but having had a few really good days with him last week, I don't feel I can give up on him yet but I have to admit I am getting so weary with all the paperwork, telephone calls, visits etc.
I think our motto ought to be "onward and upward"
On reading your posts, I know you understand how I feel,and that helps tremendously. thank you
love
Bronwen x