This is my first time on this site. My mum is 97 and was diagnosed with dementia about 18 months ago. She's now in a residential home and they provide excellent care. She's getting more aggressive especially to me and I am finding it hard to cope. I visit usually twice a week but she cannot hold a conversation so I just sit there. If she does say anything it's just to be abusive to me. I used to bring her to my home occasionally but I find it increasingly difficult getting her in and out of the car, as I have major back problems. My daughter who has 2 young children aged 3 and 1 year does not like taking the kids to the home as she feels it is no place for them, as they get bored. I feel that even if she sees the kids for a short while it's better than nothing, my daughter feels that seeing them for longer at my home is better. In a couple of days she will forget about having seen them anyway. I feel so tired and dwon at the moment not knowing what's best to do. Has anyone had any problems like this one. She is declining so fast I am scared she'll end up in a psychiatric hospital. We are waiting for another psychiatric opinion but they only seem to up her medication. Sorry for rambling on.
Sweetpea
Sweetpea