Some days it gets all too much, and just when I thought my husband was a little calmer we've had a couple of days and nights from hell...he shadowed me constantly, picking fights and challenging every little thing I did or said, even my body language and tone of voice was causing him offence. During an outing that he had wanted he behaved so aggressively(not physical) that by the time we got home I was full of unshed tears. Sometimes it all feels too much.... End of grumble and thank you for understanding...I know you do!