Following my last post, my Mum has just recovered from a urine infection after 3/4 weeks of packing to go 'home' and being very muddled. Her GP visited as my mum said she had hurt her back and could hardly walk. Apparently she has bruised her coccyx and her buttocks! My mum has said she has not fallen (not that she would remember) and that her pain is across her back. A week later and she is still complaining and is visibly suffering with this 'back condition'. She is not eating very much and I do not think she in drinking much either. The GP said she looks disshevelled! I actually managed to get her to change her blouse today but she is looking grubby. She would be horrified if she knew how she was. She has started soiling the bed too. Do I now get social services back for another assessment or do I just set up care myself? As she has a reasonable amount of savings I assume she will be self funding. What will Social services need to know and what will they actually do? Or do I try Help the Aged or the Alzheimers Society. I would appreciate your comments. Thank you.