Hi have meeting with SW next week with OH Me MIL and hoepfully SIL at SW request. SW pushing sheltered acomomodation for nearly 91year old with working diagnosis of AD results of scan awaited. MIL lives with us stays with SIL for breaks, we contacted SW for a needs and carers assessment, SW thinks registering for Sheltered housing(we have done this now bur awaiting to hear if accepted) in MIL original borough (she has lives with us for a year) as MIl has expressed a wish to near her church etc which is about25mins away we are concerned that sheltered accomodation will prove too much as she is unable to work TV without help but SW think cooking on a mircowave would be fine and that as she has no nursing needs visiting carers can meet her needs.
She moved in with us due to going down hill in genreal 18months after FIL death, not eating getting confused missing regular church events as MIL not ready, crying hating being alone in the evening risk of fall from stairs house being too big to manage etc . Now we feel she needs supervision when we are out at work and worry Sheltered housing may be a retrograde step and not sure she would pass the assessment. Feel SW thinks we just want to 'shove her in '(SWWords) to a CH, not the case.
Has anyone else had such meetings? what should we do to prepare? And those with AD in shletered accomodation is it sucessful?
Little worried as visiting carers after MIL broke her hip and late FIL was having radiotherapy were absolutely useless! Also no knowing what MIL will sayat this meeting , been assessed as having capacity(intermittent if you ask me)
Thanks
She moved in with us due to going down hill in genreal 18months after FIL death, not eating getting confused missing regular church events as MIL not ready, crying hating being alone in the evening risk of fall from stairs house being too big to manage etc . Now we feel she needs supervision when we are out at work and worry Sheltered housing may be a retrograde step and not sure she would pass the assessment. Feel SW thinks we just want to 'shove her in '(SWWords) to a CH, not the case.
Has anyone else had such meetings? what should we do to prepare? And those with AD in shletered accomodation is it sucessful?
Little worried as visiting carers after MIL broke her hip and late FIL was having radiotherapy were absolutely useless! Also no knowing what MIL will sayat this meeting , been assessed as having capacity(intermittent if you ask me)
Thanks