This is my first time posting.
My step dad is 74, lost my mum suddenly 4 years ago, we thought suffering from acute grief. However last 12 months rapid decline. He thinks he is ok, however I took him to a and e. last week. I went to visit( he lives 90 miles from me) He was walking round the house saying look this chair is like mine, look the dog is same as mine etc etc. The Dog clearly not been out (pee up the wall) my dad (he is like a dad to me) was acting so strange. My friend who is a nhs occupational therapist said take him hospital, could be UTI. Anyway went hospital they said had a stroke, he said somebody in hospital weed on him (this did not happen, nurse said wet himself). I told hospital I had concerns about memory, they discharged him after a week, referred back to memory clinic. He had test last year scored poorly but they said mild cognitive impairment and No dementia. I am so worried, he is not right and my sister makes excuses for everything he's doing. I know him so well, rapid decline. He also lit a piece of paper left it on mantle piece and burnt it. When I asked him he didn't see risk, also he recently couldn't find way to shops he been going to for years! Then next minute he seems OK. Sorry for long post but I am so worried and just wanted to let it all out.
My step dad is 74, lost my mum suddenly 4 years ago, we thought suffering from acute grief. However last 12 months rapid decline. He thinks he is ok, however I took him to a and e. last week. I went to visit( he lives 90 miles from me) He was walking round the house saying look this chair is like mine, look the dog is same as mine etc etc. The Dog clearly not been out (pee up the wall) my dad (he is like a dad to me) was acting so strange. My friend who is a nhs occupational therapist said take him hospital, could be UTI. Anyway went hospital they said had a stroke, he said somebody in hospital weed on him (this did not happen, nurse said wet himself). I told hospital I had concerns about memory, they discharged him after a week, referred back to memory clinic. He had test last year scored poorly but they said mild cognitive impairment and No dementia. I am so worried, he is not right and my sister makes excuses for everything he's doing. I know him so well, rapid decline. He also lit a piece of paper left it on mantle piece and burnt it. When I asked him he didn't see risk, also he recently couldn't find way to shops he been going to for years! Then next minute he seems OK. Sorry for long post but I am so worried and just wanted to let it all out.