Hi everyone I am new to this forum. Have just recently had it confirmed by my mother's GP that she has Alzheimer's. Confirmation came from a scan. I have been thinking mum was having problems for a while but couldn't be sure as often she seems pretty ok. She has been staying with me for a while and so I see her all the time and now realise extent of problem. I thought it was just short term memory loss. Quite often during this last two weeks she hasn't known who I am, referring to me later as "that woman who was here", sometimes fixing me with a steely gaze and asking me what I am doing in "her" house, (she is staying with me). Two days ago she had a long conversation with me as if I were my dad but later she said "I enjoyed talking to your dad" to me as if I were someone else again. Most upsettingly of all she has accused me of taking her stuff, money and ornaments. I am beside myself with grief as all I have tried to do is help her and never touched or taken any of her things. I realise that it is the illness but am so sad to think that she does not, in the recesses of her mind, trust me. This all seems to have happened so quickly without warning. The memory clinic she has been to signed her off until next year and said she was fine. Would not give her Aricept cos she wasn't "ill enough". sorry this is so much of a ramble for a first post. Just had to get some things off my chest. Thanks for listening. Ellayne.