its now been 17 weeks since my mum finally lost her battle with vascular dementia(at least 12 years).
I still feel so lonely and empty. no one seems to understand......... family are trying but .............................
i did go to my doctor...............she said"you are a mum too so you must be strong and deal with things for the sake of your family!"
I didn't need any more pressure on me..................i am struggling to get up in the morning, make sandwiches, get hubby off to work, kids to school, and go to work myself!
I made my first trip to the cemetry where her ashes were scattered last week..............it was lovely and peaceful but i didn't want to leave her......................
i really could do with some ideas to help me with sorting out a place to go to be with mum....................cemetry is no good as you can only lease a vase.............I need a permament place to go.
Please can you lovely people suggest some ideas to me?
L.M.C.
xxx
I still feel so lonely and empty. no one seems to understand......... family are trying but .............................
i did go to my doctor...............she said"you are a mum too so you must be strong and deal with things for the sake of your family!"
I didn't need any more pressure on me..................i am struggling to get up in the morning, make sandwiches, get hubby off to work, kids to school, and go to work myself!
I made my first trip to the cemetry where her ashes were scattered last week..............it was lovely and peaceful but i didn't want to leave her......................
i really could do with some ideas to help me with sorting out a place to go to be with mum....................cemetry is no good as you can only lease a vase.............I need a permament place to go.
Please can you lovely people suggest some ideas to me?
L.M.C.
xxx