Hi there,
My Dad was recently diagnosed with Alzheimer's, although as seems to be pretty common, I suspected he had it for a while. My mum passed away 3 years ago after a long battle with cancer and my Dad has not been himself since. My Dad was working up until he was forced to retire last week and I have only recently moved out of home (I am in my late 20s). There are a lot of changes happening and I am worried anymore (eg. selling the house to finance his retirement) will make him more stressed/anxious .
I was wondering if people have any advice on when I should think about moving back in with him/getting a carer. In general he can look after himself still but he does not eat properly unless I cook for him or talk him through preparing something. He also got very confused the other night, had a nap in the afternoon but woke up thinking it was the morning and got dressed and took the train to work only to discover it was closed! He was still confused about whether it was morning/evening when I went round the next evening - is this a sign that he should not be left on his own??
I feel there is an extra difficulty because it needs to be my brother and I telling him him what to do (work, driving, power of attorney etc.) and we are both quite youngish. Plus he still doesn't really accept/is unaware there is anything wrong with him. How can we get him to make the necessary adjustments without him getting defensive and not listen to us?
Ah so many questions!! I would appreciate any advice you might have - thanks!
My Dad was recently diagnosed with Alzheimer's, although as seems to be pretty common, I suspected he had it for a while. My mum passed away 3 years ago after a long battle with cancer and my Dad has not been himself since. My Dad was working up until he was forced to retire last week and I have only recently moved out of home (I am in my late 20s). There are a lot of changes happening and I am worried anymore (eg. selling the house to finance his retirement) will make him more stressed/anxious .
I was wondering if people have any advice on when I should think about moving back in with him/getting a carer. In general he can look after himself still but he does not eat properly unless I cook for him or talk him through preparing something. He also got very confused the other night, had a nap in the afternoon but woke up thinking it was the morning and got dressed and took the train to work only to discover it was closed! He was still confused about whether it was morning/evening when I went round the next evening - is this a sign that he should not be left on his own??
I feel there is an extra difficulty because it needs to be my brother and I telling him him what to do (work, driving, power of attorney etc.) and we are both quite youngish. Plus he still doesn't really accept/is unaware there is anything wrong with him. How can we get him to make the necessary adjustments without him getting defensive and not listen to us?
Ah so many questions!! I would appreciate any advice you might have - thanks!